I guess for me, balance isn’t about treating your time like a pie chart and dividing it into equally sized slices for you, the kids, work, and so on.
It’s about the quality of how you spend your time, not the quantity – are you being present and focused on whatever you’re doing while you’re doing it?
Being impervious to your elements is sometimes a good thing. And it’s not that you should be without feelings or without care. But most of the time whatever you’re worried about isn’t worrisome. The only person who you should take…